I walked in to a Starbucks last night with the intention of getting some work done while sipping on a caramel latte the size of the tower of Babel. While waiting in line, there stood two gentlemen a couple of spaces ahead of me, conversing in American Sign Language (ASL). The one gentleman wore behind-the-ear hearing aids like mine while the other did not. I could tell the one wearing hearing aids was hard-of-hearing while the other was deaf and relied on ASL for communication. I admit to always being fascinated by ASL and trying to learn new signs.
I am currently limited to the few signs I teach my children such as “I’m sorry”, “thank you”, “you’re welcome”, “hungry”, “thirsty”, “good”, “boy”, “girl”, “sister”, “brother”, “mommy”, “daddy”, and most 
important, “I love you”. I sign “I love you” to them every morning before I leave to go to work. Their three little fingers up, waving in the window in show of affection for me, continue to melt my heart as I drive away for work every day. It makes my day, and I hope it sets their school days up for smiles the same way it does me.
…As I bring my mind back to Starbucks, the sounds of the blaring CD and coffee beans whirling around in the grinder fill the air, and I yearn for the ability these gentlemen have to enjoy a perfectly communicated conversation without the interruptions of CD lyrics drowning out their own words.
What caught me off guard though was the lack of courtesy I noticed in a few young girls as they picked up their drinks and walked between the two gentlemen to walk out the door. The gentlemen casually brushed it off and continued with conversation and smiles.
I thought to myself, “If I was in a conversation with a friend and someone just walked through us without so much as a “Pardon me, please”, I would be a little miffed at their lack of courtesy. Why is it any different with someone speaking in sign?
I sat at a little table with my 1500 calorie latte and noticed I forgot something in the car. The same two gentlemen were sitting next to me. I signed “sorry” for interrupting them and asked the man who wore hearing aids if he could just watch my stuff for a second while I ran right outside to get something and come right back. When I came back in I signed “thank you” to both of them and they smiled. They taught me a few new signs and it just made my night.
Have you ever experienced something similar? What happened?
I think it is important to know a few basic words in ASL, but one that might be polite to learn is, “Excuse me”. Here is a three-second clip that demonstrates the simple sign. Now we can say we learned something new today.
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Kiersten Troutman is the Manager of Marketing and Outreach at HEARINC in Canton, Ohio. As a wife and mother of four young children, one of her greatest joys in life is being able to hear her children laugh and say, “I love you.” She holds a Bachelor of Arts degree from Kent State University, and is finishing up her Master of Arts in Composition and Rhetoric from The University of Akron. She suffers severe hearing loss in her left, and mild to moderate in her right, from birth, and has a true appreciation for the audiological advances made in the assistive hearing device industry. She has a passion for helping others realize that hearing loss does not discriminate with age, and has a vision to educate the public on how quality of life can often be improved simply by taking advantage of the amazing technology available.
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